Woman Who Miscarried Poisons 2 Pregnant Friends in a Jealous Rage

Two pregnant women miscarried after a jealous friend poisoned their drinks, a court in Austria has heard. Secretary Angela Maier, 26, was desperate to have a baby of her own but suffered three miscarriages. The depressed woman was consumed with jealousy when she then learned that her sister-in-law and best friend were pregnant. Maier told a court in Klagenfurt, Austria: 'I couldn't stand the thought of them having babies who would be growing up when mine was dead. 'Mine should have been with them as well, but instead mine died while theirs went on.'

She was suffering from depression as a result of her loss and the sight of her friend's impending births. The woman cruelly poisoned the expectant mothers' drinks with medicine she was prescribed after her miscarriage. The court heard how the woman and her best friend had become pregnant at the same time, and had been shopping for baby clothes and planning together. The friend said: 'I asked for a glass of water, and she said she had a special drink for pregnant women, that she didn't need any more.  'A short while later I started to bleed, and then I lost the baby. When I found out what she had done, I wrote back and told her she was a murderer. I can't forgive her.'

Two months later she invited her sister-in-law to visit and did the same thing again, mixing the medicine into her hot chocolate, and then 'watched me as I drank it', the victim told the court. The court heard it led to both pregnant women suffering miscarriages. Maier went on to have a baby of her own, and now has a three-year-old daughter. Eaten up with guilt at what she had done, and in the end she had written to both women to confess two years later after she learned that both were once again pregnant. She was sentenced by the court to 18 months in prison, with 14 suspended, after the court ruled that she was psychologically sound although she had, it accepted, been suffering from depression. Judge Michaela Sanin said: 'You maliciously took the lives of two unborn babies.'

Pregnant Two-Year-Old Boy

A two-year-old boy from Huaxi, has undergone an operation to give 'birth' after doctors diagnosed him as 'pregnant'. Xiao Feng, was brought to hospital after his stomach had become so distended that he had begun to suffer breathing difficulties. Once admitted, doctors took x-rays and MRI scans and discovered that Feng was carrying the undeveloped foteus of his own twin inside his stomach and they rushed him to surgery.

The removed foetus measured 20 cm in width and had a fully formed spine and limbs, including fingers and toes. Identical twins form when an egg splits in half after fertilization. But conjoined twins or foetus-in-foetu siblings occur when the egg fails to fully separate.

Dr Jonathan Fanaroff, a neonatologist at Rainbow Babies and Children’s Hospital in Cleveland, said some conjoined twins can survive as 'parasites', but not when one twin absorbs the other.

20-year-old Woman Trapped in Child's Body

Brooke Greenberg may look like an infant, but she is actually 20 years old. Despite her increasing age, Brooke has remained physically and cognitively similar to a toddler, with an estimated mental age of nine months to one year. Brooke, who is from Maryland, is unable to talk, still has her baby teeth and like any infant, travels in a push chair - but doctors have never been able to explain why. Her father, Howard Greenberg, explained: 'From age one to four, Brooke changed. She got a little bit bigger. But age four, four to five, she stopped. 'She has been examined by some of the most prestigious medical institutions in the U.S., however no formal diagnosis for Brooke’s condition has been given, leading doctors to term her condition Syndrome X. Dr Eric Schadt, director of the Icahn Institute for Genomics and Multiscale Biology at The Mount Sinai Medical Center in New York, explained that she has 'no apparent abnormalities in her endocrine system, no gross chromosomal abnormalities, or any of the other disruptions known to occur in humans that can cause developmental issues.'

Brooke, who has stayed the same size for 15 years, requires 24-hour care from her parents. She is fed through a tube inserted into her stomach, because her oesophagus is so small that swallowed food could back up into her lungs and cause pneumonia. Her mother, Melanie Greenberg, said: 'It's been 16 years of on the job training, giving her medicine, knowing when she's sick, knowing the right amount. 'Mr Greenberg added: 'The key with Brooke is we don't know what tomorrow brings.'

Scientists believe her unique genetic code could provide a fresh insight into the process of aging, leading to the development of new treatments for diseases related to old age, such as Parkinson's. Tests have shown that Brooke, who was born in 1993, may suffer from a gene mutation that switches off her ability to mature. Dr Schadt is in the process of sequencing Brooke’s genome, which is comprised of two long strings of letters, one from the mother and one from the father. Each string is three billion letters long, and changes in just one of these letters can lead to profound effects on development, physical appearance, and risk of disease. In the first six years of her life, Brooke suffered series of medical emergencies from which she recovered, often without explanation. She survived surgery for seven perforated stomach ulcers, and suffered a brain seizure followed by a stroke that weeks later left no apparent damage. Then at age four, she fell into a coma that caused her to sleep for 14 days. Doctors diagnosed a brain tumor, which disappeared by the time she awoke.

Key to aging: Scientists believe Brooke's unique genetic code could provide a fresh insight into the process of ageing, leading to the development of new treatments for diseases related to old age, such as Parkinson's Dr Schadt hopes to find out whether any abnormal genes identified in Brooke 'are involved in aging related processes, whether manipulating these genes could increase longevity and/or reduce aging related disorders such as Alzheimer’s, heart disease and many forms of cancer,' he said. Mrs Greenberg, who said she loves Brooke the way she is, explained that if another mother with a toddler asks her how old Brooke is, she usually doesn't answer truthfully. 'My system always has been to turn years into months. So, if someone asked today, I might say, she's [20] months old,' she said.

Girl Sentenced to Jail for Killing Rapist Father

Eighteen year old girl identified as Afuwah Namata was sentenced to jail on Monday for killing her father who had raped her.

The sentencing was ruled by Masaka High Court presided over by Lady Justice Margaret Oumo Oguli who heard that Namata killed her father identified as Ahmed Majwala on May 8, after he had raped her. However, this was not the first time that she had been raped by her father; he had done the evil deed since she was as young as 13 years of age. The 58-year-old man was allegedly violently killed according to prosecution which was led by Peter Mugisha. Namata killed her father using a knife and a panga after he performed [intimate] acts against her. Girl Sentenced to 6 Hours in Jail for Killing Rapist Father, Despite this, prosecution asked court to give her a death sentence arguing she performed an illegal act since the Ugandan Constitution condemns mob justice. His argument was that she should have reported the matter to police and not killed him. In defense, Edward Kikirengoma argued that the act the father did to his daughter was condemned, especially in Buganda kingdom.

He went on to add that Namata needed to take charge of her life since she had become tired of her father’s cruel acts, adding that court should look into the condition of the girl as she is six months pregnant, with the child of her father. “Namata revealed that as she was sleeping in the house, she did not know that her mother, Halima Nalukwago, 56, had gone out; her father learnt that his wife wasn’t in the house and came into her bed and raped her. Since they were living in a one-room rented house, the father took advantage of his own children,” Mr Kikirengoma said. It emerged that Majwala had also impregnated his three other daughters, Mariam Nanyange who has one child, Sarah Namukasa, who has two and Zaituni Nalugemwa, who has two, all sired by their late father. Defence therefore asked court to give Namata a lenient sentence.

Justice Oguli at last agreed with defence saying judicially, they condemn such acts done by parents to their children which she referred to as “[intimate] harassment”. In the ruling, Justice Oguli said Namata was sentenced from time of the pronounced judgement which was 11am to the time of court’s closure, 5pm, six hours in prison and court told her that she was free to appeal against the sentence. She was then taken to the cells to serve her time at Masaka Prisons. According to the prison warder, Sgt Hakiri, during her stay in prison, Namata was a well-behaved girl. “She interacted with the people around and looked sorry for what she had done,” he said. Despite the release, life is not good for Namata and her family. According to a neighbor, Joyce Nakitende, the family relocated to Lambu Landing Site as residents had wanted to kill them, but police came quickly and rescued them.

Good Parents Discipline Without Yelling

"Once upon a time, I thought, as did and still do many if not most people in my profession, that behavior modification was going to make the discipline of a child as simple and straightforward as teaching a rat to run a maze. I should have known better. As a graduate student in psychology, I had trained a rat to run a maze. Indeed, it was simple. At the same time, I was struggling to discipline our first child, then a toddler. That wasn't simple at all. Ignoring his misbehavior didn't work. Neither did punishing him; nor did rewarding him when he behaved properly. In fact, the more I tried to discipline him using behavior modification-based methods, the worse his behavior became. I realized, belatedly, that he was trying to tell me something: to wit, the principles that govern the behavior of a rat do not govern the behavior of a human being. A rat is subject to the force of reward and punishment. A human is not. Reward a child for obedience and he is likely to turn right around and disobey the first chance he gets. Punish a child for misbehaving and the misbehavior may get worse. This is not because the child carries a gene that makes him impervious to "normal forms of discipline." It is because of all the species on the planet, only human beings are capable of acting deliberately contrary to their best interests, even when they know where their best interests lie. (The tale about lemming hordes committing mass suicide by running off cliffs is a myth.)

That's why the toddler and many a contemporary teen (as opposed the typical teen of 60-plus years ago) both boast that they will submit to no one's authority. This is a self-destructive impulse because it is clearly in the best interest of a child to submit to legitimate adult authority, beginning with his parents' authority. The research finds that the happiest children are also the most obedient children, and that obedient children tend to have parents who score high on measures of authority. In other words, parents who are most comfortable with the responsibility of providing authority to children tend to raise the happiest kids.

These are parents who go about the discipline of their children without great fanfare. Yelling, threatening, inconsistency — those are the hallmarks of parents who do not have a firm grip on their authority, who do not therefore know how to convey it in a calmly compelling way.

The clearer a parent is concerning his or her expectations, the more likely it is the child will obey. Say what you mean and mean what you say, and communicate your expectations in the least number of words. The more words you employ, the more it appears that you are pleading as opposed to directing.

And while "Because I said so" is sometimes a legitimate response to a child's demand to know why your expectations, limits, and prohibitions are what they are, it is also necessary that a child eventually come to understand the moral principles behind your decisions. That "moral compass" endows your decisions with a coherence and consistency that would otherwise be absent."

Do you agree?

When can my child safely sit in the front seat of a car

The answer in almost every case is not until he or she is at least 13 — and passenger safety organizations recommend going even further and keeping your child in the backseat until he or she is ready to drive himself or herself.                                 

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Why? Because riding in the front seat simply isn't as safe as riding in the back. Buckling a child into the backseat instead of the front reduces by a third his/her risk of death in a collision. In a head-on crash (the most common — and deadly — type of collision), a child in the front seat can be thrown into your car's dashboard or through the windshield. Even if he or she is properly buckled in, he/she is at much greater risk for being harmed by objects intruding into the car in the front than in the back.

What's more, in cars with passenger air bags (which includes most newer models), the air bags deploy with such force that they can cause severe head and neck injuries to a child. Nationwide, more than a hundred children have been killed by air bags in recent years, and many of these deaths were in slow-speed collisions that should have been minor. Infants and toddlers in rear-facing car seats are at extreme risk from air bags when placed in the front seat because the back of their car seat is so close to the dashboard.

If, despite these very real dangers, you absolutely must put a non-rear-facing child in the front seat, check to see whether your car's air bag has an on-off switch, and if so, turn it off. If not, have an air-bag switch installed by a car dealership or one of the specialized companies that have sprung up to deal with this situation. If you can't disable your passenger air bag, then have the child who's most securely restrained in a front-facing car seat with a full harness (in other words, the child who's least likely to wiggle out of his restraints, or, if your passengers have all moved out of the car seat phase, your biggest or tallest passenger) ride in the front seat, and move his/her seat as far back from the dashboard as possible.

Bubble boy: Baby born inside intact amniotic sac

"Born in the caul" is a phrase that's connected with a lot of cross-cultural myths and superstitions — babies born in the caul are supposed to be destined for lives of fame and fortune (or, possibly, misfortune and grisly death, depending on which legends you're listening to). Biologically, though, it refers to a baby that's born with part of the amniotic sac — the bubble of fluid a fetus grows in inside the uterus — still attached. Usually, a piece of the sac is draped over the baby's head or face. These are called caul births, and they're rare. But, about once in every 80,000 births, you'll get something truly extraordinary — "en-caul", a baby born inside a completely intact amniotic sac, fluid and all. There's a photo of a recent en-caul birth making the rounds online. The photo is being attributed to Greek obstetrician Aris Tsigris. It's fascinating. But it's also pretty graphic, so fair warning on that. (If the sight of newborn infants and blood gives you the vapors, you might also want to avoid most of the links in this post, as well.)

Check this out. I mean, seriously. That's awesome.

There doesn't seem to be a lot of information on the details of this particular birth, but, most of the time, when a baby is born this way it's also born premature. Sometimes, really premature. There are case reports in medical literature of babies being born en-caul at 23 weeks, 6 days gestation, which, for context, is a little over half the weeks you'd want a baby to gestate. Fetuses aren't large or well-developed enough to even be able to clearly tell their sex on an ultrasound until about 20 weeks gestation.

The premie connection is probably more than coincidence. For one thing, the smaller the fetus, the more space the sac around it has to ballon outward and come through the birth canal intact. What's more, there's evidence that being born en-caul has a protective effect for premature infants. Nobody is exactly sure why. But it might have something to do with the physical mechanics of birth, which, I'm sure you're aware, can be a little rough on both mother and baby. Premies born en-caul essentially come with their own cushiony air bag, which might protect them from physical injuries that could otherwise be life-threatening. So, in that sense, babies born en-caul really are lucky. Just not in the way the ancient legends would have you believe. In fact, in 1975, a newborn survived for 25 minutes outside the uterus, but inside the fluid-filled amniotic sac, not breathing air, and turned out completely healthy.

Speaking of legends of the caul, back in 1952 The Yale Journal of Biology and Medicine published a manuscript by Thomas Forbes, which collected literary and documentary references to caul-related superstitions dating back to Roman times. I wanted to share one particularly fun story from Forbes' account. This refers to a caul birth, rather than an en-caul birth, so the amniotic sac wasn't totally intact. Instead, just a part of it was draped over the newborn baby's head.

Tragic plight of seven-month-old boy born with a spinal defect as he develops a 10 centimetre 'tail'

A seven-month-old boy is suffering with a large growth that resembles a tail and it is growing longer every week. The growth developed a result of the boy, named Xiao Wei, being born with spina bifida. His mother Chen Wei, from Guangdong in Southern China, said she has asked for the growth to be removed but surgeons say it isn't possible, at least at the moment. She said: 'We have asked the surgeons to remove the tail but they tell us it is not that simple.' Spina bifida or 'split spine' is a fault in the development of the spine and spinal cord which leaves a gap in the spine.  The spinal cord is responsible for connecting all parts of the body to the brain. In the first month of life, a developing baby in the womb grows a structure called the neural tube. It is this that will eventually form the spine and nervous system.

But in cases of spina bifida,  the spinal column  - the bone that surrounds and protects the nerves - does not fully close. The exact causes are unknown, but several risk factors have been identified, the most significant being a lack of folic acid before and at the very start of pregnancy. There are a number of different types of spina bifida but Xiao has myelomeningocele, the most serious variant of the condition. It affects one pregnancy in every 1,000 in Britain. Myelomeningocele spina bifida causes the spinal column to remain open along the bones making up the spine. The membranes and spinal cord push out to create a sac in the baby’s back. This sometimes leaves the nervous system vulnerable to infections that may be fatal.

In most cases surgery can be can close the defect but damage to the nervous system will usually already have taken place, resulting in a range of symptoms, including paralysis and incontinence. Chinese medics say the growth at the base of Xiao's spine has been caused by damage to the outer wall of the child's spinal canal. Surgeon Huang Chuanping explained: 'Xiao's growth is quite well developed and now measures some 10 centimetres.''If we cut it off it will simply grow again. We need to repair the spinal canal first to stop it reoccurring.'

Bride Aged 8 Dies After Suffering Internal Sexual Injuries During Wedding Night With Man, 40

An eight-year-old Yemeni girl has died of internal sexual injuries after spending her wedding night with a husband five times her age.The girl, identified as Rawan, is believed to have suffered tearing of her genitals and a uterine rupture, Kuwaiti daily newspaper Al Watan reports. It says Kuwaiti activists have called for action against the man, who is 40, as well as the girl’s family for allowing the marriage. The girl died in the tribal area of Hardh in northwestern Yemen, which borders Saudi Arabia. Gulf News quotes blogger Angry Man as posting the husband is “an animal who deserved to be punished severely for his crime.”

“All those who supported such a crime should also be punished,” he added.

Al Bawaba reports over a quarter of young girls in Yemen are married before the age of 15.

It points the country passed a law in February 2009 setting the minimum age of marriage at 17, but that it was repealed after conservative lawmakers declared it “un-Islamic”. In 2010 a 13-year-old Yemeni girl who was forced into an arranged marriage died five days after her wedding when she suffered an internal rupture, a local human rights organisation declared.

Ilham Mahdi al Assi died in Yemen's Hajja province, the Shaqaeq Arab Forum for Human Rights told the AFP in a statement quoting a medical report. According to a World Vision study released in March, more child brides are being led into arranged marriages due to an increase in global poverty and crises. Parents who live in fear of natural disasters, political instability and financial ruin look to arranged marriages as a way to save their struggling families.

Every day, 39,000 girls younger than 18 will marry, according to the World Health Organization. This madness must stop!

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First-Time Mum Gave Birth to 15lb Baby Boy Naturally: How big was your baby?

First-time mum Jade King had a very big delivery room surprise last month when her son George arrived weighing a whopping 15lbs and 7oz! That would be somewhat astounding on its own, but add to that the fact that Jade delivered her baby boy vaginally after 16 hours of labor and George’s birth story becomes almost unbelievable. Jade and her husband Ryan King, both 21, had no clue that their son would be so big – the second biggest baby ever to be born vaginally in the UK, according to reports.  “It was a massive shock for everyone – no-one had any idea he would be this big,” says mom, who was induced 15 days after her due date and labored with the aid of gas and an epidural. “During the pregnancy I was just getting bigger and bigger.” We were told everything was normal until he popped out,” adds her husband.

The delivery took a very frightening turn when the baby became stuck in the birth canal and was without oxygen for 5 minutes. Jade and Ryan say that medical staff gave him just a ten percent chance of survival. “His shoulders got stuck and that is when everything kicked off,” recalls Jade. “There were about 20 doctors in the room and that is when it got really scary.” Six weeks later, though, George, who at 2ft 2 inches long is in 6-month size sleepers, is now happy, healthy and at home with his relieved parents.  “He is a little miracle – a big miracle actually!’ gushes Jade, though she admits that she’s now wary of having another baby just in case the next little one turns out to be not-so-little as well!

Father accused of raping his two Daughters and Granddaughter

A seven-year-old girl (name withheld), has accused her 49-year-old father of rape. The girl said her father, Sylvester Ehijele, had on numerous occasions had sex with her, adding that he used to promise to buy her goodies and toys before the actions. She said he usually had sex with her on a daily basis whenever her mother was not home. She said, “Whenever my mum is not at home, he grabs me, forces his hand over my mouth and then inserts his penis into my private part. He promises to buy me a car, cake and biscuit but he doesn’t buy anything for me. “He also threatens to use a knife to gouge my eyes out anytime I threaten to report to my mother.”

Sylvester’s wife, Margaret, told PUNCH Metro that he (Ehijele) also raped their 23-year-old daughter when she was much younger and recently, he raped their one-year-old granddaughter that lives with them. She said, “I am a caterer. In 2006 I went to Abuja for a catering job where I spent five days. But at about 1am, my first daughter, who was about 17-years-old at the time, called me on the phone crying that her father raped her that night. “When I returned, I confronted him but he beat me up and he continued to molest our daughter and each time I confronted him, it earned me a beating. I had no choice but to leave him when I got fed up with seeing him molesting our daughter and later sleeping with me. I took my six children and we relocated.” She said in 2011, Sylvester’s family settled their differences and urged the couple to reconcile for the sake of the children. She said her husband swore never to touch any of his daughters again and she reluctantly returned to her husband’s house. Margaret said she was however disappointed to find out that less than a year after moving in with her husband, he went back to his old ways. 

She said, “We reconciled in May 2011 and I really thought he had changed but in August last year, I caught him in a compromising situation with our seven-year-old daughter. I called her out and she told me how her father had constantly been abusing her. “Again, I confronted him and he beat me up. I had to pick my daughter and ran to his brother’s house, where I stayed for three days before I went back home.” Mrs. Ehijele said she continued to cope with her husband’s ways until he finally raped their 15-month-old granddaughter. She said, “Because my oldest daughter works, we decided to put her daughter baby at a day care in Ejigbo. I have always been the only one that brings her back at 6pm everyday from the day care. But on that particular day, my husband went to the day care and after an altercation with the teacher, he took the baby home.

 “He took the baby home and hours later the baby was crying profusely. When I got home, the baby was still crying and I wondered what was wrong. When I finally took off her diapers so I could bathe her, I noticed she was bleeding in her private part. When I raised the alarm, my husband was unnerved. That was when I suspected him. “I rushed down to the Ejigbo Police Station and reported the matter.” Margaret said she had been married to the suspect for over 23 years and lamented that he had had carnal knowledge of all their daughters. “I have two daughters, four sons and a granddaughter. Sadly, my husband has raped all of the females,” she said. The Police Public Relations Officer, Ngozi Braide, said the suspect would soon be charged to court on charges of defilement. “The suspect is in the habit of sleeping with his daughters and now his granddaughter. We have the doctor’s report which shows that the girls have been defiled,” she said.A copy of medical report issued by the Isolo General Hospital reads in part that, “The vaginal hymens of the girls are no longer intact.”

Sylvester however denied the allegation, adding that it was his wife that poisoned his daughters’ minds against him. He said his wife left him initially because he had refused to pay her dowry. He said, “If I was the one that raped them, let me die. My wife and I were separated for four years and it was because her family said I hadn’t paid her bride price. After we reconciled, she told my daughters to tell lies against me in order to disgrace me. “Even my oldest daughter confessed to my family that I never raped her and that it was my wife that told her to lie.” When quizzed about the medical report, Sylvester said it was not authentic.

Culled from Punch

Were you Bullied in High School?

Were you bullied in high school? Please share your experience.

Schoolboy, 15, Killed Himself after Months of Cruel Taunts from Bullies over His Learning Difficulties

A schoolboy who was found hanged in his bedroom was being bullied because he suffered from learning difficulties and was dating a younger girl, his family and friends have claimed.  Joshua Maddox, who suffered from attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), had allegedly suffered months of cruel taunts from classmates because the condition had left him struggling with his schoolwork.  His devastated mother Michelle Maddox, 34, also claimed today that her son was called 'paedo' by classmates because his girlfriend of two months was two years younger than him. She issued a desperate plea for tougher punishments to be handed to bullies. The 15-year-old was found hanged by his younger sister Leighlauren at the family home in Walsall, West Midlands, as she went to wake him for school last Thursday morning.  Miss Maddox said: 'I want young people to see what effect bullying can have and educate them better about how to deal with children who have mental health issues. 'I think bullies need a stronger punishment, I feel deep down that nothing will be done about this and I worry it could happen to another family.

 

'He was my baby, I can't replace him, he's never coming back and I want people to be aware of what bullying can do to people. 'We all went to bed the night before, he never gave any indication or let on that anything was wrong. 'That day he'd been playing with his brothers and they'd been laughing and joking together. 'The only thing we do know is he deleted stuff off his phone just before he died, the police are looking through it for any clues. 'He was very good at putting up a front, you wouldn't be able to find out what was wrong with him. 'Even if you asked he'd say he was fine.' Heartbroken Miss Maddox said that her son, who died just a month before his 16th birthday, had been dating a younger girl since just before Christmas. She added: 'We only knew that he had been bullied about his girlfriend because his sister was in the art room when it happened, otherwise we probably never would have known. 'They were calling him a "paedo" because she was two years younger and making fun of the fact that she had glasses. 'We were told about it the week before he left us but he said he wanted to deal with it himself and didn't want me to get involved. 'The problem when children are bullied is that they feel like if they tell on people they'll just get it back ten times worse.'

Scores of Joshua's friends took to social networking sites to play tribute to the 'lovely' and 'cheeky' Year 10 student who was known as Josh, but others hit out at bullies who had targeted him. Friend Jessica Mary posted on a facebook page set up in his memory: 'R.I.P gorgeous! We were always so close.  'I hope the bullies die inside, I hope they suffer I don't get how they can bully you because you have adhd, its so sick you was lovely lad you was so nice sleep tight lovely x (sic). Stepdad Philip Downes, 32, said that Josh behaved as though he was much younger due to his ADHD and autism. He said: 'I think children need to be more aware of the symptoms of ADHD and other mental health problems. 'Josh showed no physical difference to the other children his age, but in his head it was a different story. 'His body was 15 but his mind was more like a twelve-year-old. 'His body had gone through puberty but his brain hadn't, he just didn't fit in any more with the other children so they picked on him.' Friends of the youngster who attended St Thomas More Catholic School in Willenhall, West Midlands, described him as a talented artist, footballer and keen video-gamer on the site.

Kirsty Price wrote: 'Josh u was truely amazing and just a total ace person I will never forget u the way u flipped ur hair the way u alway had a smile on ur face we have lost a true angel. 'I will never forget the laugh we have had when we had piggy back race down all the streets. 'U was so amazing at drawing and I will never forget the time I popped ur nose and u still had a smile on ur face rip josh I will never forgett u xxxxxx (sic).' A West Midlands Ambulance Service spokeswoman confirmed that Joshua died at the family's Walsall home.

She said: 'We were called to a medical incident, one patient was confirmed dead at the scene. 'No-one was taken to hospital.' A West Midlands Police spokesman confirmed officers were called to a medical emergency at around 7am last Thursday. Detective Inspector John Smith said: 'We are completing routine enquiries on behalf of the coroner; the death is not being treated as suspicious.'

Joshua's school today said that students were being offered counselling following his death. A school statement said: 'Our deepest sympathies go to the family and friends of Joshua Maddox who tragically passed away. 'He was a kind and friendly boy well-liked by friends and teachers. 'School counselling staff have been made available to support staff and pupils over the coming days and weeks as they come to terms with this sudden and extremely sad news. 'Walsall Council and Walsall Children's Services - Serco have also offered their sympathy to Joshua's family, friends and to our school. They are in regular contact with us and we will continue to work together to support the family and school community. 'It would be appreciated if the family's and school's privacy could be respected at this difficult time.

Understanding Bullying

What is Bullying?

Bullying is when someone intimidates or causes harm to another person on purpose. The victims of bullying can be verbally, physically or emotionally assaulted and are often threatened and made to feel frightened. Bullying should not be viewed as an unfortunate but unavoidable part of school life. No child deserves to be bullied - it's unacceptable behaviour and can have a devastating effect on the victim. Most schools have an anti-bullying policy, so it's a good idea to be aware of the position adopted by your child’s school.

Bullying in school can include:

·         verbal harassment - face to face, by phone, text or over the Internet

·         hitting, hair-pulling and kicking

·         teasing and name-calling

·         spreading rumours

·         damaging possessions

·         frightening and intimidation

·         exclusion at playtime or from social events and networks

How can I tell if My Child is being Bullied?

Your child may not tell you that he or she is being bullied. However, you may notice some changes in his or her behaviour, including:

·         unwillingness to go to school

·         feeling unwell, often with a headache

·         irritability

·         anxiety

·         aggression towards you or others in your family

·         bedwetting

·         waking in the night

·         missing or damaged belongings

What should I do if my Child is being Bullied?

If you suspect your child is being bullied, don’t ignore it.

Find a quiet time to talk to your child. Explain that bullying is unacceptable and that no one should have to put up with it. Promise to do all you can to stop it.

Make an appointment to see your child's class teacher as soon as possible. Useful tips for the meeting:

·         Decide what you want to say and what you'd like to achieve from the meeting before you go.

·         Try to stay calm even though you may feel angry and emotional.

·         Don't blame the teacher - he or she may be unaware of the bullying.

·         Give specific examples of how your child is being bullied.

·         Ask what the school's anti-bullying policy is.

·         Discuss what action the teacher will take.

·         Arrange to meet again within two weeks to discuss progress.

If you're unhappy with the way your child's teacher deals with the situation - either at the meeting or after the school has taken action - make an appointment to see the head teacher and go through the same process described above.

What should I do if my Child is a Bully?

If you suspect your child is bullying another child or other children, don’t ignore it.

A child who is bullying others often has problems of his or her own. Try to understand what may be causing this behaviour and think about what is going on in your own home. Bullying can be subtle, so watch your child’s behaviour closely.

Consider the following:

·         Is your child going through a difficult time?

·         Does your child feel overlooked or overshadowed?

·         Could your child be copying someone else's behaviour - maybe an adult or older sibling at home?

·         Do other members of your family use aggression or force to get what they want?

·         Are you allowing your child to use aggression or force to get what they want from other people?

Make sure your child understands that bullying is unacceptable. Encourage your child to be friendly, understanding and kind to others. Try to bolster friendships by inviting other children over to your home but watch out for any signs of bullying.