Abandoned Baby

The baby, with umbilical cord, blood and all, was found abandoned around 10am this morning at Shilon Junction, Ilupeju,Lagos.The new born was abandoned near a dustbin close to the express. Unbelievably sad!

Baby Born With Sealed Anus

A couple in Bauchi State had been thrown into confusion following the discovery by medical doctors that their two-month-old baby girl, Maryam, was born without anus. The girl showed no sign of deformity until the doctors' shocking discovery. The incident occurred around the old cemetery in Jahun area of Bauchi State. The baby's mother Malama Aishatu Yau narrated how it all happened, and how the parents are battling to see that their baby live a normal life like other human beings. Aishatu said no one realised Maryam's pathetic condition until 12 days after her birth. Maryam, according to her mother, did not pass out any excreta and was crying endlessly and for all those 12 days.

The parents sought medical attention at a clinic in Bauchi. After diagnosis, they were informed by the doctors that their baby had not been able to empty her bowl because her anus was sealed right from birth. From the clinic in Bauchi, Aishatu said, they were referred to the Federal Medical Centre (“FMC”) Gombe. At the FMC, the doctors told them that their daughter needed an emergency surgery to create a hole at the side of her stomach through which she can temporarily relieve herself. To get a permanent solution, however, the parents were told that opening her anus is required so that she can live a normal life.

From my findings I discovered that some children are born with no anal opening at all. This is called an imperforate anus.

What Is Imperforate Anus? Imperforate anus is a problem with the way a baby's anus or rectum formed. The rectum is the end of the large intestine, where stools (feces) are stored until they leave the body in bowel movements. The anus is the opening that stools pass through as they leave the body. Imperforate anus is when there is no opening at the end of the digestive tract where the anus normally is. Imperforate anus can take several forms. The digestive tract may end in a closed pouch somewhere inside the body. Or, the rectum may connect to other parts of the body through a channel called a fistula. For example, in boys the rectum may connect through a channel to the urethra, bladder or scrotum. In girls it may connect to the vagina or bladder. Sometimes the channel comes out in front of where the anus would normally be. In other cases, a baby has an anus, but it is too narrow to allow waste to come out.

Children with imperforate anus may have other problems that are associated with the condition. These may include problems with:

i.         The bones that make up the spine (vertebrae)

2. The lowest part of the spine, just above the tailbone (sacrum)
3. The windpipe (trachea)
4. The tube that connects the mouth to the stomach (esophagus)
5. Heart
6. Arms and legs
7. Kidneys

Children with imperforate anus and related anal or rectal problems are born with the conditions. Imperforate anus occurs while the baby is forming inside the mother. Doctors do not know the cause. It affects about 1 in every 5,000 babies.

Is My Baby Suffering From Colic? (Crying Baby)

About colic

Colic is a common condition in babies. As many as one in five babies have colic in the first few months of life. Colic affects boys and girls, and babies who are breastfed and those who are bottle-fed equally. It is not known what causes colic, but it is usually harmless and lasts for a few months before getting better on its own. However, it can be very upsetting for parents.

Symptoms of colic

Colic usually starts when your baby is a few weeks old and the symptoms last for a few months. Most babies ‘grow out of it’ by the age of three or four months, or six months at the latest. Your baby may cry for several hours a day and you might find it hard to soothe or comfort him or her. A baby with colic can cry at any time of the day, but you may find that it’s worse in the late afternoon or evening. Although colic isn't thought to be painful for your baby, he or she may look uncomfortable. Your baby may: arch his or her back; draw up the legs to his or her abdomen (tummy); become stiff; pass wind; and clench his or her fists

If your baby has colic, he or she should still feed well and gain weight. If your baby does not do this, please go and see your Doctor.

Most parents find the symptoms of colic very stressful to manage, especially if it’s your first child. It can be difficult to cope with the constant crying, or to comfort your baby, so it’s important to look after yourself, get support and to take a break if things get on top of you.

Causes of colic

The exact reasons why your baby may develop colic aren't fully understood at present. However, there are a number of possible causes. The main ones are listed below.

i.         If you smoke during pregnancy, your baby may be more likely to get colic.

2. Your baby may have painful indigestion or wind.
3. Your baby may be sensitive to either lactose in breast milk or cows’ milk protein in formula milk. This can cause intolerance while your baby’s digestive system is developing during the first few months of life.
4. Your baby may be more sensitive than other babies. This can mean that he or she is more sensitive to their environment or to being over-stimulated.

Diagnosis of colic

If you are worried about your baby’s crying, get advice from your Doctor to make sure there is not a more serious health problem. Before you see your Doctor, think about anything else that may be causing your baby to cry. Some of the main causes of crying are listed below.

i.         Wind. If you’re bottle-feeding your baby, sit him or her upright when you feed him or her. This cuts down the amount of air your baby takes in during feeds and may help to prevent wind. Your health visitor will be able to show you how to do this. Burping your baby will also help to get rid of wind.

2. Hunger or thirst. Talk to your health visitor about whether your baby is feeding enough.
3. Temperature. Check whether your baby is too hot or too cold. Keep the room temperature at 18°C if possible.
4. Itchiness. Itchy clothes, labels or eczema can irritate your baby.
5. Pain, such as nappy rash.

If your baby continues to cry, see your Doctor. He or she will examine your baby and ask you about your baby’s behaviour. This will help to rule out other illnesses or causes of crying. Doctors usually make a diagnosis of colic if your baby cries for more than three hours a day, for more than three days a week, for a period of more than three weeks.

Treatment of colic

There is no single treatment for colic that works for every baby. Different babies are comforted in different ways, and you may need to try a few methods to see what works best. In time, colic will stop and your baby’s crying will get better after a few months.

Self-help

You may find the following techniques helpful to soothe your baby.

i.         Hold your baby and walk or dance around with him or her. Babies need lots of contact and like the movement.

2. Carry your baby in a front sling or backpack.
3. Try using a baby swing.
4. Sing softly, play music and talk to your baby.
5. You may want to change your baby’s position by propping him or her up, so he or she can look around more.
6. Try to soothe your baby with continuous noise or vibrations, for example the noise from a vacuum cleaner or washing machine, or from running water.
7. Take your baby for a drive in the car or a walk in the buggy.
8. Give your baby a dummy to suck on.
9. Bathe your baby – the warm water may be comforting.

Your Doctor may also suggest changing your diet or your baby’s diet. This may help if your baby is sensitive to lactose or to cows’ milk protein. If you’re breastfeeding your baby, try cutting out caffeinated drinks or cows’ milk and dairy foods for a week to see whether your baby’s symptoms get better. If you’re bottle-feeding your baby, your Doctor may suggest changing the size of the hole in the teat, as too small a teat can cause your baby to swallow air. Your Doctor may also recommend changing to a different formula, called a hypoallergenic formula, for one week. If your baby’s symptoms don’t get better, you can go back to your usual formula milk.

You can also try adding lactase drops to milk during feeds. Lactase breaks down lactose and may help to improve your baby’s symptoms. You can add lactase drops to bottle feeds of formula or breast milk. If you’re breastfeeding, add the drops to a small amount of expressed milk and give it to your baby using a sterilised teaspoon. Try this for one week to see if the symptoms get better. You can buy lactase from a pharmacy. Don't cut out any foods from your diet without speaking to your Doctor first.

Help and support

Caring for a baby with colic can be very stressful, frustrating and challenging for any parent, particularly if it's your first child. If you're feeling frustrated and upset because you can't comfort your baby, leave him or her somewhere safe, such as a cot, for a few minutes and go into another room to calm down. Taking a short break can stop you from getting more upset.

If you feel overwhelmed, ask your husband, family member or friend to take over for a while, even for just an hour or two, so you can have a proper break from your baby's crying.

Bulawayo couple and their eight-year-old daughter

Parents Forced 8-year-old Daughter to Watch them have Intercourse, Lick Their Privates.

In an incident that smack the pinnacle of moral decadence, a Bulawayo couple made their eight-year-old daughter watch them having sex after which she was forced to lick and suck their privates clean. It is reported that on 8 April, the girl’s mother and step father (names withheld to protect the identity of the minor) were playing ‘adults bedroom game’. During the act, the girl’s mother reportedly called the girl who was watching television in the lounge to the bedroom where the action was taking place.

She is alleged to have ordered the girl to watch how things were done in the adult world. As per instruction, the hapless soul had no choice but to take heed of the order. The two unruly lovebirds engaged in all sorts of stunts, both possible ones and even those believed to be impossible. During the session, the woman is said to have told the girl to imitate the groans and moans she was making. The little girl could do nothing but to comply. As the encounter raged on, the couple is reported to have engaged in oral sex with the girl’s eyes firmly glued on the action.

After fulfilling their wildest dreams in full glee of their child, the two are reported to have instructed the girl to do unto them what she had just seen. First to go was the girl’s mother who reportedly lay on the bed with her legs wide open and told her ‘beloved daughter’ to lick her privates until ‘some fluid that were on it had vanished’. Having allegedly completed that task as per expectations, next in line was the girl’s step-father who also had his ‘anaconda’ sucked by the 8-year-old innocent mouth, it is alleged. The matter only came to light recently after a relative spotted the girl exhibiting to her mates her newly acquired skills. After being questioned, she revealed where she had learnt them from. Her mother and step-father were arrested and were hauled before Western Commonage magistrate, Mr Richard Ramaboea who remanded them in custody to 24 May after they failed to pay $100 bail.

Parents need to remember at all times that they are responsible for their child (ren). This act is barbaric and should not be condone in our society.

Baby Put In a Washing Machine

This is amazing. Putting a 1-year-old inside a washing machine isn't smart, but it's also not criminal, according to a New Jersey prosecutor. The Camden County prosecutor's office determined a babysitter and her acquaintance were not criminally liable for their decision at a Camden, New Jersey, laundry on May 11.

"This was not an intelligent choice to put the baby in the washing machine, but it was not a crime," said prosecutor's office spokesman Jason Laughlin. The incident was captured on the store's security camera and has since gone viral. It shows a man placing the child inside the machine and shutting the door, which apparently locked. The washer began its cycle with the baby inside. The two people then appeared to panic and tugged at the door, unable to open it until an employee unplugged the machine.

"He was scared," said employee Kong Enh. "I'm upset about what happened but I'm extremely gratified that the child is doing well." The baby suffered minor injuries, Laughlin said. "By looking at the video it is clear there was no attempt to harm the child," he said

Please nobody should ever do this to any child.

Teacher Arraigned in the UK for Raping Schoolgirl

Keith Ogunsola

This sad story was reported on Guardian.co.uk on Wednesday 23 May 2012. A Nigerian science teacher who groomed a 14-year-old pupil before repeatedly raping her has been told he faces “a very long time” in prison. Keith Ogunsola, lured his victim to hotels around the country pretending he was going to give her extra science tuition. Croydon Crown Court heard the 47-year-old started his abuse in January 2001. When giving the victim a lift, he told her he really fancied her and tried to kiss her. A month later, he met the student at the former Aerodrome Hotel, in Purley Way, Croydon, where he took her virginity by raping her.

The court heard he then embarked on a three-year secret affair with her, telling his victim to wear skirts with no underwear when they met so it was easier to have sex with her. The court heard he also booked stays at the Premier Inn and Hilton hotel in Purley Way. Prosecutor, Hanna Llewellyn-Waters, said, “She was manoeuvred into a position where she did not tell anyone, believing her word would not be believed against a teacher and the defendant told her what to do, say and wear. “When she wanted to have a boyfriend he became jealous and when she refused to have sex with the defendant, he ripped her clothes off and raped her again.”

On Friday, May 18, a jury took two-and-a-half-hours to find the married father-of-three guilty of rape, indecent assault and engaging in sexual activity while in a position of trust. The court heard Ogunsola, who taught in Sutton between 1998 and 2001, avoided jail in 2009 after being convicted of kissing one of his pupils in Ilford, Essex. Remanding Ogunsola in custody, Judge Jeff Blackett said, “I have a pretty good idea in my own mind what the sentence is going to be.”

This madness has to stop.

Wow! A Nigerian Child-Prisoner Freed After 17 Years

Patrick Okoroafor

This is what I call "Freedom at Last". A Nigerian 31-year-old man who was sentenced to death as a juvenile has expressed his happiness at being released from prison and reunited with his family after such a long time, following a relentless global campaign by Amnesty International. Patrick Okoroafor was just 14 when he was arrested in 1995 and 16 when sentenced to death for armed robbery, a crime he says he didn’t commit.

Amnesty International considered Patrick’s Okoroafor’s trial to have been grossly unfair and repeatedly called for his immediate and unconditional release. Thousands of people in dozens of countries including France, Germany, Ivory Coast, Netherlands, New Zealand, Switzerland, Togo and the UK have taken action for OKoroafor.  Actions included letter and card writing, demonstrations and lobbies to Nigerian Embassies.

Upon his release Patrick Okoroafor said:“After Amnesty began its call for my release from prison, and after reading some of the thousands of letters, cards and messages sent to me by Amnesty supporters, I began to hope that I would soon be free in the not too distant future.” Patrick featured regularly in Amnesty International’s annual Greetings Card Campaign and has received more than 10,000 cards and letters from supporters in the UK and across the world.

Congratulations Patrick Okoroafor

Say "No" to Child Abuse (Story of Yussif)

Yussif is eight-year-old he lives in Asafo Dadiesoaba in Kumasi, his right foot was terribly burn by his father, Yussif Wahab, for being unruly. He wants the police to take revenge on his behalf by also burning his father with a hot iron. The boy, who could not walk properly following the severe burns that he suffered on his foot after being burnt with a burning iron, has passionately appealed the police to come to his aid by teaching his ‘wicked’ father a bitter lesson. 

Young Yussif, who is still in pain, speaking on Kessben FM in Kumasi said: “I want the police to immediately arrest my father and beat him mercilessly just as he did to me.” “I want the police to also burn my father with a hot iron just as he did to me so that he too will feel the pain that I felt.” Yussif’s father allegedly beat him and later ordered the boy to sit on the bed whilst he pressed a burning iron on the boy’s foot. The poor boy’s right foot developed a sore, making it impossible for him to walk properly. He was spotted by two journalists of Kessben FM on Wednesday who took him to the Emergency Centre of Komfo Anokye Teaching Hospital where he was admitted.

Yussif said his father, sent him on an errand but he decided to visit his grandmother, against his father’s warning. According to him, his father, after searching for him, later found him at his grandmother’s at Asafo Dadiesoaba. Yussif’s father became angry and dragged the boy to his house. Yussif said his father, upon reaching the house, subjected him to severe beatings after which he ordered him to sit on the bed where he pressed a hot iron on his foot for disobeying him. Yussif, who is now being treated by medical personnel at the Komfo Anokye Teaching Hospital, insisted that “I want the police to arrest my father, beat him mercilessly and also press a hot iron against his foot just as he did to me.” Wahab Yussif, has been invited for questioning. The young boy is also being kept by the department until the matter is finally resolved.

Terrible Twos and Tantrums

A friend of mine told me last week that she and her hubby are dealing with terrible two. “Our daughter is 2 years old going on 3 in November. She started the "terrible-twos" right after she turned one. The last couple of months have been a struggle due to her "terrible-two behaviour” Everything has to be her idea, or she won't do it. My husband and I have tried to disciple her when she does something wrong, but time-outs, patting her on the diaper or hand, etc. does not phase her any. She just looks at you like what. She goes right back to doing it again. She has a tantrum like I have never seen in a child before. She throws fits,hits, tries to bite, throws things, etc. You can't do anything to her to stop it. My husband and I feel embarrassed to take her public because of what she does. When we're in public it doesn't happen all the time. I try to work with her, but it seems hopeless” she asked me if I have any advice on what herself and her hubby can do to deal with the issue.

Funny enough another friend of mine told me the same time two days ago “My little boy turned into a little Devil when he turned two last week! I don’t know how to deal with all the tantrums and tears and saying NO NO NO all the time. Its mega stressful please give me some advice and tell me it won’t last a year”. Lol

What do you think they can do to stop these tantrums? Let us have your comments and advise.

In case you had forgotten what the "terrible twos" were like. Let me remind you using this scenario. A 24 month old wanted yogurt. Or "fogurt" as some toddlers say. So you open the fridge to find three identical containers of yogurt.

She is peering in behind you and wants to pick. 

 Yes, they are identical but you are aware of exercising independence and all that parenting toddlers stuff. So you pause and let her pick. She grabs the one on the right. You begin to shut the fridge door thinking we are done.

Apparently she has made a mistake. The yogurt on the right is no good. So you put the offending yogurt back and she grabs the middle one. 

 And throws it on the floor. This one is even more offensive. So you pick it up, put it back and she grabs the one on the left this time. 

  And she throws herself on the floor along with the yogurt. Clearly, the worst yogurt ever. When she calms down she goes back to her original choice. The one on the right. A wise choice. She is happy with her final choice and she is ready to eat it.

                          Except she can't open it. So you do something stupid.

Chicken Pox and Pregnancy

My friend once told me that her aunt got chicken pox during her first trimester and the baby was born with some defects. Doctors told her that the chances of the baby being born with defects after a chicken pox were very slim, but unfortunately it happened to her and the baby didn't live very long. It was very painful for everyone. I believe I should bring this topic to the floor of the house.

It is quite often that women who are pregnant come into contact with someone who has chicken pox. This can cause great worry, but it is uncommon for there to be major problems. Research has shown that 80-90% of women who are pregnant are likely to be protected from chicken pox, either from previously having the disease or a sub-clinical, 'silent' infection.

What are the Symptoms of Chicken Pox? Chicken pox is highly infectious and is spread by droplets through the air and via contact. The infection causes fever, a feeling of generally being unwell and an itchy rash that develops into small vesicles which crust over before healing. The incubation period is on average two weeks, which means that it can be brewing this long before even showing itself, and a person is infectious (can transmit chickenpox to another person) from two days before the rash appears until after the vesicles crust

Risks to the Baby: Firstly, if the mother has definitely had chicken-pox, there is no risk to the baby or her. In any case, even if she doesn't recall having had chicken pox, it is likely she has antibodies (80% do) from a silent (asymptomatic) infection. So if there's any doubt about it, she should see a doctor for a blood test to check if she's immune. Risks to the baby are important at the following two times, if mum gets chicken-pox:

1.      Before 20 weeks - risk of chicken pox syndrome. This is actually quite rare. Up until 14  the risk is about 0.4%, whereas between 14-20 weeks it is 2%. If a woman has VZ-Ig treatment (see below) after being exposed, the risk is even lower.

2. Mum's rash developing within a week before delivery to a month afterwards. It takes about a week for mum to pass the protective antibodies to the baby, so if born before that time, the babe is at risk of overwhelming infection after birth. Between 20 weeks and term there is no risk to the baby. The other big risk of chicken is to the mother. She is much more likely, during pregnancy, to get a chicken pox pneumonia (10%) which can be very severe (even life-threatening).

Getting Treatment: In cases of 'at risk' exposure it is important to give Varicella-Zoster Ig ('man-made' antibodies) to mum and/or baby. This can be lifesaving and significantly reduce the disease severity. It must be given not later than 10 days after exposure.  Remember all of the above ONLY apply if at-risk - ie mum proven not to have antibodies. If in doubt, see your doctor who can do the blood test.

Daughter and Father

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jlgr6MoXufU&feature=player_embedded#t=0s

BallsCrash: I can't believe what this girl did to her father. Kids can play rough so parents be careful

Help Find Missing Kosi Akilo

Nine days after she was taken from her home, no word has been heard from the kidnappers who took 6 year old Kosi Akilo. Kosi was taken from her parents home in Enugu on Sunday morning May 13, 2012. Please call 08033475532 if you have any information or go to the nearest police station.

Why is my Child Stealing and What can I do about it?

Young children do not steal. Children below the age of four or five do not have a concept of ownership. They do not understand that it is wrong to take things that belong to others.

By the time a child enters elementary school, he should know that stealing is wrong. Children at this age take things because they lack self-control.

A preteen or teen may steal for the thrill of it or because that is what friends are doing. He may be trying to gain a feeling of control over his life or to fill an emotional void.

Whatever the reason your child is stealing, you need to approach the problem with wisdom. If you just react according to your natural inclination, your response will almost certainly be wrong and destructive.

Why a Child Steals

1 - Child Can't Control Himself

Younger children lack self-control. A child may take something although he knows that stealing is wrong simply because he can't help himself. You should give your child the ability to get what he wants in an honest way. Also, try to minimize the temptation.

2 - Child's Basic Needs are Not Being Met

Children are completely dependent on their parents for all of their needs. A child who feels that his needs are not being met will eventually take the matter into his own hands. The easiest way for a child to do this is to take what he needs.

What a person needs is subjective. Even if you feel that your child does not need something, it might be a real need for your child. For example, if the child's school friends have pocket money, then your child could have a need for it. He will feel a lack if he doesn't have it, even if you provide him with everything that he wants. This type of child may be tempted to steal money just so he has money like everybody else.

3 - Child Needs More Attention

The most common reason that children steal is that they feel an emotional lack in their lives. A child, who does not have his emotional needs met, feels empty inside. He may take things in an attempt to fill the void. Often children who steal are lonely or having trouble in school or with friends. They lack the tools or the opportunity to express their feelings.

Many children do not get the attention they need. Such a child may feel unloved or that the parents are not interested in him. This may or may not be true. As explained in How to Improve Your Child's Behavior, how your child perceives your attention is more important than the amount of attention that you give. These children may translate their emotional needs into material desires. Stealing is their way for these children to express their discontent and to seek gratification.

4 - Child Needs to Have Control Over His Life

Children are acutely aware of their vulnerability. They lack control over their lives. Some children have difficulty with this. If the child has trouble feeling dependant, he may steal to gain a sense of control or to rebel.

5 - Peer Pressure

Older children are pulled after what their friends do. If the child is with a group of children that feel stealing is exciting, the child may steal to be part of the group. Sometimes, a child may steal to show bravery to friends. If your child has fallen in with bad friends there are things you can do to address the problem. See What to Do When Your Teen Chooses Bad Friends.

If You Suspect Your Child is Stealing

1 - Stay Calm

Don't overreact. When a child steals it does not mean that he is a thief or is headed for a life of crime. It is really no different than any other mistake your child makes.

2 - Do not Take it Personally

Children steal to get attention. If you take your child's stealing as a personal attack, you are reinforcing the reason the child stole.

3 - Do Not Accuse or Confront Your Child

This point must be stressed. You must catch your child in the act so that the situation speaks for itself.

Never challenge your child with circumstantial evidence. Either the child will lie and you will reinforce his dishonesty or he will confess. If he tells the truth and you punish him, you will be teaching him that it pays to lie. Either way you are stuck. Circumstantial evidence won't do.

Hearing that your child stole from a third party won't do. If your child denies it, then you must believe your child. If you don't, then you will show your child that you don't trust him. Nothing encourages a child to be dishonest more that knowing that his parents don't trust him. If the child confesses, you will not be able to punish him.

Even if you are 99% sure your child is stealing that is not good enough to accuse him. For example, say that you look in your purse and the brand new $50 you took out from the bank yesterday is missing. You put your child's laundry away and you find hidden among his things your brand new $50. You did not catch your child. Maybe someone else also lost a new $50 bill and he found it. Maybe your $50 fell out of your purse and your child found it on the street. If you did not see your child reach into your purse and take the fifty dollar bill then you didn't see him steal.

4 - Make Sure that Your Child Knows What He Did is Wrong

This is particularly true of a younger child.

When You Catch Your Child

Don't ask the child for explanations. Merely state that he is not allowed to take things from other people. Do not sermonize. Just use simple explanations.

"Stealing is wrong. You would not want anyone to take your toy. So it's wrong for you to take this toy."

Never imply that your child is bad. Stealing is bad, not the child. Do not call your child a thief, dishonest, or a liar or any other name that you do not want him to become. When you give your child a label, he will grow to fill that label.

Correcting the Wrong

If Your Child Stole From Someone Outside the Family

Your child must make restitution. If your child stole from a store or from a neighbor, then see that he returns the object. Have your child apologize and say he or she will never do it again. You should accompany your child to make it easier for him to correct the damage.

If Your Child Stole Money from You

Estimate what child took and make it clear that the child must pay you back. He may do this by helping around the house for money. You should pay him enough that he pays off his debt in about a month. Say to him that you realize he needs more money and give him an allowance or increase in allowance.

Hide Temptation

Don't leave money around where your child can find it. Tell his siblings that you are going to watch their money for a while. Don't tell them why. Don't send this child to the store to buy something with a large bill where there will be a lot of change.

Putting the Incident into the Past

Figure Out Why Your Child Stole

If he needs more attention make a special effort to give it to him. If he needs to feel more control over his life, give him an increase in allowance and more freedom to spend it as he wishes. If he needs certain things to be part of his peer group, make sure that he gets them.

Continue to Trust Your Child

If your child is stealing it does not mean he is bad or he is a thief. You don't want your reaction to make him become that way. Your child will fulfill your expectations of him. If you view him as a thief, bad, or dishonest he will grow into that label.

Be a Model of Honesty

Children learn by watching their parents. You should display concern about other people's property. A parent who brings office supplies home or boasts about a mistake at the supermarket checkout counter, teaches his child that honesty is not important.

Conclusion

Stealing is a common problem. You should view it like any other mistake your child makes. It is something that has to be corrected, but it is not more than that. If you handle it properly, you can correct this problem easily.