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Monday, 21 October 2013
Woman Who Miscarried Poisons 2 Pregnant Friends in a Jealous Rage
Two pregnant women
miscarried after a jealous friend poisoned their drinks, a court in Austria has
heard. Secretary Angela Maier, 26, was desperate to have a baby of her own but
suffered three miscarriages. The depressed woman was consumed with jealousy
when she then learned that her sister-in-law and best friend were pregnant. Maier
told a court in Klagenfurt, Austria: 'I couldn't stand the thought of them
having babies who would be growing up when mine was dead. 'Mine should have been
with them as well, but instead mine died while theirs went on.'
She was suffering
from depression as a result of her loss and the sight of her friend's impending
births. The woman cruelly poisoned the expectant mothers' drinks with medicine
she was prescribed after her miscarriage. The court heard how the woman and her
best friend had become pregnant at the same time, and had been shopping for
baby clothes and planning together. The friend said: 'I asked for a glass
of water, and she said she had a special drink for pregnant women, that she
didn't need any more. 'A short while later I started to bleed, and
then I lost the baby. When I found out what she had done, I wrote back and told
her she was a murderer. I can't forgive her.'
Two months later she
invited her sister-in-law to visit and did the same thing again, mixing the
medicine into her hot chocolate, and then 'watched me as I drank it', the
victim told the court. The court heard it led to both pregnant women suffering
miscarriages. Maier went on to have a baby of her own, and now has a
three-year-old daughter. Eaten up with guilt at what she had done, and in the
end she had written to both women to confess two years later after she learned
that both were once again pregnant. She was sentenced by the court to 18 months
in prison, with 14 suspended, after the court ruled that she was
psychologically sound although she had, it accepted, been suffering from
depression. Judge Michaela Sanin said: 'You maliciously took the lives of two
unborn babies.'
Wednesday, 2 October 2013
Pregnant Two-Year-Old Boy
A two-year-old boy from Huaxi, has undergone an
operation to give 'birth' after doctors diagnosed him as 'pregnant'. Xiao Feng,
was brought to hospital after his stomach had become so distended that he had
begun to suffer breathing difficulties. Once admitted, doctors took x-rays and
MRI scans and discovered that Feng was carrying the undeveloped foteus of his
own twin inside his stomach and they rushed him to surgery.
The
removed foetus measured 20 cm in width and had a fully formed spine and limbs,
including fingers and toes. Identical twins form when an egg splits in half
after fertilization. But conjoined twins or foetus-in-foetu siblings occur when
the egg fails to fully separate.
Dr
Jonathan Fanaroff, a neonatologist at Rainbow Babies and Children’s Hospital in
Cleveland, said some conjoined twins can survive as 'parasites', but not when
one twin absorbs the other.
Friday, 13 September 2013
20-year-old Woman Trapped in Child's Body
Brooke Greenberg may look like an infant, but she is actually 20
years old. Despite her increasing age, Brooke has remained physically and
cognitively similar to a toddler, with an estimated mental age of nine months
to one year. Brooke, who is from Maryland, is unable to talk, still has her
baby teeth and like any infant, travels in a push chair - but doctors have
never been able to explain why. Her father, Howard Greenberg, explained: 'From
age one to four, Brooke changed. She got a little bit bigger. But age four,
four to five, she stopped. 'She has been examined by some of the most
prestigious medical institutions in the U.S., however no formal diagnosis for
Brooke’s condition has been given, leading doctors to term her condition
Syndrome X. Dr Eric Schadt, director of the Icahn Institute for Genomics and
Multiscale Biology at The Mount Sinai Medical Center in New York, explained
that she has 'no apparent abnormalities in her endocrine system, no gross
chromosomal abnormalities, or any of the other disruptions known to occur in
humans that can cause developmental issues.'
Brooke, who has stayed the same size for 15 years, requires
24-hour care from her parents. She is fed through a tube inserted into her
stomach, because her oesophagus is so small that swallowed food could back up
into her lungs and cause pneumonia. Her mother, Melanie Greenberg, said: 'It's
been 16 years of on the job training, giving her medicine, knowing when she's
sick, knowing the right amount. 'Mr Greenberg added: 'The key with Brooke is we
don't know what tomorrow brings.'
Scientists believe her unique genetic code could provide a fresh
insight into the process of aging, leading to the development of new treatments
for diseases related to old age, such as Parkinson's. Tests have shown that
Brooke, who was born in 1993, may suffer from a gene mutation that switches off
her ability to mature. Dr Schadt is in the process of sequencing Brooke’s
genome, which is comprised of two long strings of letters, one from the mother
and one from the father. Each string is three billion letters long, and changes
in just one of these letters can lead to profound effects on development,
physical appearance, and risk of disease. In the first six years of her life,
Brooke suffered series of medical emergencies from which she recovered, often
without explanation. She survived surgery for seven perforated stomach ulcers,
and suffered a brain seizure followed by a stroke that weeks later left no
apparent damage. Then at age four, she fell into a coma that caused her to
sleep for 14 days. Doctors diagnosed a brain tumor, which disappeared by the
time she awoke.
Key to aging: Scientists believe Brooke's unique genetic code
could provide a fresh insight into the process of ageing, leading to the
development of new treatments for diseases related to old age, such as
Parkinson's Dr Schadt hopes to find out whether any abnormal genes
identified in Brooke 'are involved in aging related processes, whether
manipulating these genes could increase longevity and/or reduce aging related
disorders such as Alzheimer’s, heart disease and many forms of cancer,' he
said. Mrs Greenberg, who said she loves Brooke the way she is, explained that
if another mother with a toddler asks her how old Brooke is, she usually
doesn't answer truthfully. 'My system always has been to turn years into
months. So, if someone asked today, I might say, she's [20] months old,' she
said.
Girl Sentenced to Jail for Killing Rapist Father
Eighteen year old girl identified as Afuwah Namata was
sentenced to jail on Monday for killing her father who had raped her.
The sentencing was ruled by Masaka High Court presided over
by Lady Justice Margaret Oumo Oguli who heard that Namata killed her father
identified as Ahmed Majwala on May 8, after he had raped her. However, this was
not the first time that she had been raped by her father; he had done the evil
deed since she was as young as 13 years of age. The 58-year-old man was allegedly
violently killed according to prosecution which was led by Peter Mugisha.
Namata killed her father using a knife and a panga after he performed
[intimate] acts against her. Girl Sentenced to 6 Hours in Jail for Killing
Rapist Father, Despite this, prosecution asked court to give her a death
sentence arguing she performed an illegal act since the Ugandan Constitution
condemns mob justice. His argument was that she should have reported the matter
to police and not killed him. In defense, Edward Kikirengoma argued that the
act the father did to his daughter was condemned, especially in Buganda
kingdom.
He went on to add that Namata needed to take charge of her
life since she had become tired of her father’s cruel acts, adding that court
should look into the condition of the girl as she is six months pregnant, with
the child of her father. “Namata revealed that as she was sleeping in the
house, she did not know that her mother, Halima Nalukwago, 56, had gone out;
her father learnt that his wife wasn’t in the house and came into her bed and
raped her. Since they were living in a one-room rented house, the father took
advantage of his own children,” Mr Kikirengoma said. It emerged that Majwala
had also impregnated his three other daughters, Mariam Nanyange who has one
child, Sarah Namukasa, who has two and Zaituni Nalugemwa, who has two, all
sired by their late father. Defence therefore asked court to give Namata a
lenient sentence.
Justice Oguli at last agreed with defence saying judicially,
they condemn such acts done by parents to their children which she referred to
as “[intimate] harassment”. In the ruling, Justice Oguli said Namata was
sentenced from time of the pronounced judgement which was 11am to the time of
court’s closure, 5pm, six hours in prison and court told her that she was free
to appeal against the sentence. She was then taken to the cells to serve her
time at Masaka Prisons. According to the prison warder, Sgt Hakiri, during her
stay in prison, Namata was a well-behaved girl. “She interacted with the people
around and looked sorry for what she had done,” he said. Despite the release,
life is not good for Namata and her family. According to a neighbor, Joyce
Nakitende, the family relocated to Lambu Landing Site as residents had wanted
to kill them, but police came quickly and rescued them.
Wednesday, 11 September 2013
Good Parents Discipline Without Yelling
"Once upon a time, I
thought, as did and still do many if not most people in my profession, that
behavior modification was going to make the discipline of a child as simple and
straightforward as teaching a rat to run a maze. I should have known better. As
a graduate student in psychology, I had trained a rat to run a maze. Indeed, it
was simple. At the same time, I was struggling to discipline our first child,
then a toddler. That wasn't simple at all. Ignoring his misbehavior didn't
work. Neither did punishing him; nor did rewarding him when he behaved
properly. In fact, the more I tried to discipline him using behavior
modification-based methods, the worse his behavior became. I realized,
belatedly, that he was trying to tell me something: to wit, the principles that
govern the behavior of a rat do not govern the behavior of a human being. A rat
is subject to the force of reward and punishment. A human is not. Reward a
child for obedience and he is likely to turn right around and disobey the first
chance he gets. Punish a child for misbehaving and the misbehavior may get
worse. This is not because the child carries a gene that makes him impervious
to "normal forms of discipline." It is because of all the species on
the planet, only human beings are capable of acting deliberately contrary to
their best interests, even when they know where their best interests lie. (The
tale about lemming hordes committing mass suicide by running off cliffs is a
myth.)
That's why the
toddler and many a contemporary teen (as opposed the typical teen of 60-plus
years ago) both boast that they will submit to no one's authority. This is a
self-destructive impulse because it is clearly in the best interest of a child
to submit to legitimate adult authority, beginning with his parents' authority.
The research finds that the happiest children are also the most obedient
children, and that obedient children tend to have parents who score high on
measures of authority. In other words, parents who are most comfortable with
the responsibility of providing authority to children tend to raise the
happiest kids.
These are parents
who go about the discipline of their children without great fanfare. Yelling,
threatening, inconsistency — those are the hallmarks of parents who do not have
a firm grip on their authority, who do not therefore know how to convey it in a
calmly compelling way.
The clearer a parent
is concerning his or her expectations, the more likely it is the child will
obey. Say what you mean and mean what you say, and communicate your
expectations in the least number of words. The more words you employ, the more
it appears that you are pleading as opposed to directing.
And while
"Because I said so" is sometimes a legitimate response to a child's
demand to know why your expectations, limits, and prohibitions are what they
are, it is also necessary that a child eventually come to understand the moral
principles behind your decisions. That "moral compass" endows your
decisions with a coherence and consistency that would otherwise be absent."
Do you agree?
Tuesday, 10 September 2013
When can my child safely sit in the front seat of a car
The answer in almost every case is not until he or she is at
least 13 — and passenger safety organizations recommend going even further
and keeping your child in the backseat until he or she is ready to drive
himself or herself.
.
Why? Because riding in the front seat simply isn't as safe as riding in the back. Buckling a child into the backseat instead of the front reduces by a third his/her risk of death in a collision. In a head-on crash (the most common — and deadly — type of collision), a child in the front seat can be thrown into your car's dashboard or through the windshield. Even if he or she is properly buckled in, he/she is at much greater risk for being harmed by objects intruding into the car in the front than in the back.
What's more, in cars with passenger air bags (which includes most newer models), the air bags deploy with such force that they can cause severe head and neck injuries to a child. Nationwide, more than a hundred children have been killed by air bags in recent years, and many of these deaths were in slow-speed collisions that should have been minor. Infants and toddlers in rear-facing car seats are at extreme risk from air bags when placed in the front seat because the back of their car seat is so close to the dashboard.
If, despite these very real dangers, you absolutely must put a non-rear-facing child in the front seat, check to see whether your car's air bag has an on-off switch, and if so, turn it off. If not, have an air-bag switch installed by a car dealership or one of the specialized companies that have sprung up to deal with this situation. If you can't disable your passenger air bag, then have the child who's most securely restrained in a front-facing car seat with a full harness (in other words, the child who's least likely to wiggle out of his restraints, or, if your passengers have all moved out of the car seat phase, your biggest or tallest passenger) ride in the front seat, and move his/her seat as far back from the dashboard as possible.
Monday, 9 September 2013
Bubble boy: Baby born inside intact amniotic sac
"Born in the caul" is a phrase that's connected with a lot of
cross-cultural myths and superstitions — babies born in the caul are supposed
to be destined for lives of fame and fortune (or, possibly, misfortune and
grisly death, depending on which legends you're listening to). Biologically,
though, it refers to a baby that's born with part of the amniotic sac — the
bubble of fluid a fetus grows in inside the uterus — still attached. Usually, a
piece of the sac is draped over the baby's head or face. These are called caul
births, and they're rare. But, about once in every 80,000 births, you'll get
something truly extraordinary — "en-caul", a baby born inside a completely
intact amniotic sac, fluid and all. There's a photo of a recent en-caul birth
making the rounds online. The photo is being attributed to Greek obstetrician Aris Tsigris.
It's fascinating. But it's also pretty graphic, so fair warning on that. (If
the sight of newborn infants and blood gives you the vapors, you might also
want to avoid most of the links in this post, as well.)
Check this out. I mean, seriously. That's awesome.
There doesn't seem to be a lot of information on the details of this
particular birth, but, most of the time, when a baby is born this way it's also
born premature. Sometimes, really premature. There are case
reports in medical literature of babies being born en-caul at 23 weeks, 6 days gestation,
which, for context, is a little over half the weeks you'd want a baby to
gestate. Fetuses aren't large or well-developed enough to even be able to
clearly tell their sex on an ultrasound until about 20 weeks gestation.
The premie connection is probably more than coincidence. For one thing,
the smaller the fetus, the more space the sac around it has to ballon outward
and come through the birth canal intact. What's more, there's evidence that
being born en-caul has a protective effect for premature infants. Nobody is
exactly sure why. But it might have something to do with the physical mechanics
of birth, which, I'm sure you're aware, can be a little rough on both mother
and baby. Premies born en-caul essentially come with their own cushiony air bag,
which might protect them from physical injuries that could otherwise be
life-threatening. So, in that sense, babies born en-caul really are lucky. Just not in the
way the ancient legends would have you believe. In fact, in 1975, a newborn survived for 25 minutes outside the uterus, but inside the
fluid-filled amniotic sac, not breathing air, and turned out
completely healthy.
Speaking of legends of the caul, back in 1952 The Yale Journal of
Biology and Medicine published a manuscript by Thomas Forbes, which collected
literary and documentary references to caul-related superstitions dating back
to Roman times. I wanted to share one particularly fun story from Forbes'
account. This refers to a caul birth, rather than an en-caul birth, so the
amniotic sac wasn't totally intact. Instead, just a part of it was draped over
the newborn baby's head.
Tragic plight of seven-month-old boy born with a spinal defect as he develops a 10 centimetre 'tail'
A seven-month-old boy is suffering with a
large growth that resembles a tail and it is growing longer every week. The
growth developed a result of the boy, named Xiao Wei, being born with spina
bifida. His mother Chen Wei, from Guangdong in Southern China, said
she has asked for the growth to be removed but surgeons say it isn't possible,
at least at the moment. She said: 'We have asked the surgeons to remove
the tail but they tell us it is not that simple.' Spina bifida or 'split spine'
is a fault in the development of the spine and spinal cord which leaves a gap
in the spine. The spinal cord is
responsible for connecting all parts of the body to the brain. In the first
month of life, a developing baby in the womb grows a structure called the
neural tube. It is this that will eventually form the spine and nervous system.
But in cases of spina bifida, the
spinal column - the bone that surrounds and protects the nerves - does
not fully close. The exact causes are unknown, but several risk factors have
been identified, the most significant being a lack of folic acid before and at
the very start of pregnancy. There are a number of different types of spina
bifida but Xiao has myelomeningocele, the most serious variant of the
condition. It affects one pregnancy in every 1,000 in Britain. Myelomeningocele
spina bifida causes the spinal column to remain open along the bones making up
the spine. The membranes and spinal cord push out to create a sac in the baby’s
back. This sometimes leaves the nervous system vulnerable to infections that
may be fatal.
In most cases surgery can be can close the
defect but damage to the nervous system will usually already have taken place,
resulting in a range of symptoms, including paralysis and incontinence. Chinese
medics say the growth at the base of Xiao's spine has been caused by damage to
the outer wall of the child's spinal canal. Surgeon Huang Chuanping explained:
'Xiao's growth is quite well developed and now measures some 10 centimetres.''If
we cut it off it will simply grow again. We need to repair the spinal canal
first to stop it reoccurring.'
Bride Aged 8 Dies After Suffering Internal Sexual Injuries During Wedding Night With Man, 40
An eight-year-old Yemeni girl has died of internal sexual injuries after
spending her wedding night with a husband five times her age.The girl,
identified as Rawan, is believed to have suffered tearing of her genitals and a
uterine rupture, Kuwaiti daily newspaper Al Watan reports. It says Kuwaiti
activists have called for action against the man, who is 40, as well as the
girl’s family for allowing the marriage. The girl died in the tribal area of
Hardh in northwestern Yemen, which borders Saudi Arabia. Gulf News quotes blogger Angry Man as posting the husband is “an
animal who deserved to be punished severely for his crime.”
“All those who supported such a crime should also be punished,” he
added.
Al Bawaba reports over a quarter of young girls in Yemen
are married before the age of 15.
It points the country passed a law in February 2009 setting the minimum
age of marriage at 17, but that it was repealed after conservative lawmakers
declared it “un-Islamic”. In 2010 a 13-year-old Yemeni girl who was forced into an arranged
marriage died five days after her wedding when she suffered an
internal rupture, a local human rights organisation declared.
Ilham Mahdi al Assi died in Yemen's Hajja province, the Shaqaeq Arab
Forum for Human Rights told the AFP in a statement quoting a medical report. According
to a World Vision study released in March, more child brides are being led into arranged marriages due
to an increase in global poverty and crises. Parents who live in fear of
natural disasters, political instability and financial ruin look to arranged
marriages as a way to save their struggling families.
Every day, 39,000 girls younger than 18 will marry, according
to the World Health Organization. This madness must stop!
Thursday, 22 August 2013
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